These are the harsh realities that women wish their male counterparts would finally confront and acknowledge. By understanding these truths, not only can men improve their relationships with the women in their lives, but they can also promote a more equal and understanding society. We’ve compiled a list of 10 such critical realities – a wake-up call for men everywhere to engage more thoughtfully with the women’s perspective. Let’s get started.
Embrace Your “Unmanly” Passions
“You don’t have to be macho or a manly man.”
Many women find genuine passion attractive, even if it doesn’t align with traditional “macho” interests. If you’re a guy who loves Star Trek or Magic: The Gathering, that’s great! Embrace your hobbies and interests. Genuine enthusiasm is infectious, and it shows a level of authenticity that’s genuinely attractive.
Admit Your Love for Cuddling
“It’s okay to admit you like cuddling, perhaps even more than I do.”
Society often portrays men as less affectionate, but many men enjoy cuddling just as much as women. So, guys, don’t feel the need to hide your love for cuddling. Being open about your interests can help create deeper connections and more satisfying relationships.
Nail Care is Crucial
“You all do need to clip your nails.”
Maintaining personal hygiene, like keeping nails short and clean, is essential for everyone, not just women. It’s about comfort, cleanliness, and respect for others – especially if you’re holding hands or touching someone else.
Anger Is an Emotion, Too
“Anger is an emotion.”
It’s common for men to suppress their feelings, leading to outbursts of anger. Identifying and expressing emotions healthily is crucial for anyone, regardless of gender. It’s okay to be emotional and express feelings openly.
Cheating Has Long-Term Consequences
“Please tell us if something is wrong. Do not cheat.”
Cheating doesn’t just hurt in the moment—it can cause long-lasting pain and damage trust permanently. Being open and honest, even when it’s tough, is always the best policy in any relationship.
Hygiene Matters, Everywhere!
“You have to wash in your crack, not just the cheeks.”
Hygiene plays a massive role in how others perceive us, and poor hygiene can be a significant turn-off. So, guys, pay attention to those hard-to-reach places when showering. You’ll feel fresher, and the people close to you will appreciate it too!
Respect Boundaries
“That’s my purse! I don’t know you!”
Personal boundaries are important, and respecting them is essential for any healthy relationship. That goes for physical boundaries, like not touching someone’s purse without permission, and emotional boundaries, like respecting personal space.
Cleanliness is Attractive
“If your bathroom is too gross to poop in, it’s not gonna work out.”
Cleanliness isn’t just about personal hygiene. Keeping your living space clean, including your bathroom, shows you care about your surroundings and understand basic adult responsibilities.
Don’t Change a Good Thing
“If you find something she enjoys, keep doing it.”
Guys, if you stumble upon something that makes your partner happy, don’t feel the need to change it. Consistency in the things that bring joy can create a strong bond and shared happiness in your relationship.
Pregnancy Prevention Is a Shared Responsibility
“It is also YOUR responsibility to avoid causing unintended pregnancies.”
Guys, contraception isn’t just a woman’s responsibility. Whether using a condom or discussing other options, share in the responsibility. It’s about respect and safety for both people involved.
Understand the Difference Between Respect and Fear
“Sometimes what you perceive as admiration and/or respect is actually fear.”
A woman’s fear can sometimes be mistaken for respect or admiration because of the physical size and strength disparity between genders. As men, it’s essential to be aware of this, treat all women with respect, and do everything you can to ensure they feel safe and comfortable. Open communication is key.
Respect Her Decisions: No Means No
“When a girl says no, please listen, don’t beg until she says yes.”
Consent is a fundamental aspect of any relationship. If she says no, that should be the end of the discussion. Pressuring or begging her to change her mind disrespects her autonomy and can lead to a feeling of unease or worse. It’s crucial to respect her decisions.
Looks Aren’t Everything
“Plenty of plain-looking men have wives and girlfriends.”
Attraction extends far beyond physical appearances. If you feel insecure or adopt harmful ideologies, remember that kindness, intelligence, humor, and responsibility are qualities that hold a lot of weight. Being a good person can go a long way in finding a partner.
Knowledge is for Sharing, Not Belittling
“Making us feel stupid for not knowing something doesn’t make you look smart.”
It’s crucial to understand that not everyone will have the same knowledge base as you. Instead of belittling someone for not knowing something, share your knowledge helpfully and constructively. This approach can build respect and encourage a more profound and meaningful connection.
The “Not All Men” Argument Can Be Harmful
“We know it’s not all men. Unfortunately, we don’t know WHICH men, so we must be equally cautious around all of them.”
It’s critical to acknowledge the inherent dangers that women often face. As men, it’s essential to understand the need for women to be cautious and, instead of getting defensive, work towards making the environment safe and comfortable for all.
Respect Her Belongings
“Bras are expensive…Just leave all things bra-related to us.”
While it might seem passionate or fun to be rough with a woman’s bra, the reality is that it can be expensive and challenging to replace. Respecting her belongings, even as small as a bra, can show her that you value and understand her needs.
Kindness Isn’t Always Romantic Interest
“Being kind and friendly doesn’t mean they are into you.”
Interpreting basic kindness or friendliness as romantic interest can lead to awkward situations or strained relationships. It’s essential to understand that women, like men, can be kind or friendly without romantic intentions.
Her Cycle Affects More Than You Might Think
“That our cycle messes up with our energy and libido, so if we don’t want to sleep with someone, it’s not something you can talk us out; we simply don’t have the energy for that. It’s not our fault. It’s not your fault; our body is just like that.”
Women’s menstrual cycles can significantly affect their energy levels and libido. Understanding this can help avoid miscommunication or feelings of rejection. It’s not about trying harder or persuading; it’s about respecting her body’s natural processes.
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