TikTok user @swagaliciousvr0 recently presented an unusual suggestion: the Barbie movie as an unexpected means to evaluate romantic relationships. “I genuinely think taking your boyfriend to Barbie should be your relationship test,” she voiced in a video that stirred conversation among her followers.
Understanding the Method Behind the Unusual Test
But why choose the Barbie movie as a relationship test? @swagaliciousvr0 explains that how one’s partner interacts with the movie can provide essential insights into their character. She encourages her followers to pay attention to their partner’s thoughts on the film, from their feelings about the characters to their opinions on the plot.
Promoting Thoughtful Discussion
Further extending her unique test, @swagaliciousvr0 encourages open-ended conversations after the movie. She asks, “Is he interested in having an intellectual conversation about the message afterward?” She argued for the importance of communication in relationships and how a discussion about a movie can lead to deeper understanding between partners.
Social Media Responds to the Barbie Test
The video sparked a significant response on social media, garnering over 4 million views. TikTok users found themselves discussing their experiences with the Barbie movie, and the discourse varied. Some agreed with the TikToker’s viewers on relationships and argued that the movie was a good relationship test.
Detractors Claim Overemphasis on Depth
Not everyone agreed with @swagaliciousvr0’s idea. One viewer expressed skepticism about the depth of the Barbie movie. They argued, “The obsession over girls’ partners and this movie is insane. It’s not as deep as you have been made to think.” They argued viewers, and by extension @swagaliciousvr0, might be taking the film more seriously than necessary.
Experiencing the Sting of Disinterest
Another user shared their personal experience of disappointment when their partner showed no interest in the movie. They stated, “he was not interested in it even though I went to see Oppenheimer with him. It hurt so much to know he’s not interested in how I experience the world.”
An Unexpected Twist: Celebrity Crushes
Among the serious discussions, some lighter comments emerged. One TikTok user humorously revealed her boyfriend’s attraction to the movie’s leading actress, stating, “Mine just fancies Margot Robbie.” In the film, Robbie plays the titular role of Stereotypical Barbie.
Positive Outcomes: Embracing the Movie and Each Other
Despite some criticisms, many users had positive experiences when they took their partners to the Barbie movie. One user recounted, “he gave it a 10/10 and said that he’s glad it talked about girl and boy problems. He hugged me and said, ‘Tell me when you’re sad, it’s what I’m here for.'” Clearly, there are some potential benefits of the Barbie test.
Facing Fears for Barbie
A TikTok user shared her boyfriend’s struggle with crowd discomfort, yet his willingness to attend the Barbie movie for her. She mentioned, “My boyfriend played with Barbies as a kid but didn’t want to go because he doesn’t like crowds. He’s very much like Alan. I think he’ll love him.” It highlighted how shared experiences could bring couples closer, despite individual discomforts.
Commitment Showcased through Movie Excitement
One user proudly shared her partner’s enthusiasm for the movie. “He was so excited when the trailer came out,” she said. “He bought tickets for the day it came out a month in advance.” The commenter also stated that the pair of them cried together during the movie.
Married Men Appreciating Barbie
A married woman chimed in with her husband’s reaction to the Barbie movie. “My husband loved the movie! We saw it last night and he said it’s a must-watch for all men.” Instead of being a simple kids’ movie, the commenter argued it could be a potential tool to promote understanding in relationships.
Expanding the “Barbie Test” Beyond Partners
User @bbeccaa_ expanded the “Barbie test” even further. She suggested women should not only bring their partners to watch Barbie but also any significant men in their lives. She argued that the movie could be as a teaching tool for those unfamiliar with women’s experiences and the concept of feminism. She concluded, “If he doesn’t get it or says that feminism has gone too far, please tell him to open his eyes and educate themselves.”
Nicole Hoefler: The Coined Phrase, “Barbie Test”
In a recent interview with NBC News, German TikToker Nicole Hoefler coined the phrase “Barbie test” to describe this trend. The idea, she explained, is to use a potential partner’s thoughts on the Barbie movie as a relationship indicator. “‘What are your thoughts on the Barbie movie?’ is like the new first date question,” stated Hoefler, who believes a negative attitude towards the movie might be a warning sign.
Hoefler’s Personal Experience with the “Barbie Test”
Hoefler also shared her personal “Barbie test” experience. In a TikTok video viewed more than 57,300 times, she gushed about her boyfriend’s reaction to the movie. She wrote, “The best part about the Barbie movie is that my boyfriend proved to me more than ever that he’s the best.” He donned pink attire, appreciated the movie’s humor and depth, and had a meaningful conversation with Hoefler afterward.
TikTokers Share “Barbie Test” Experiences
Following Hoefler’s lead, numerous TikTokers began sharing their experiences of watching Barbie with their partners. They evaluated whether their significant others passed the now-viral “Barbie vibe check,” further adding to the trend’s momentum.
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